Monday, February 14, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day

Today is of course is February 14.   I have one amazing husband and I couldn't have married anyone better.  I really feel that the Lord placed us in each others lives for a reason.  As we have been talking about the different types of dating, I have thought about my own dating experiences.  The experience with my husband was by far the best one.  I recall how he exemplified the responsibilities of a Priesthood holder as we were dating.  He seemed to always have a plan for our dates which falls under preside.  He may have been nervous to ask me out on dates, but I don't remember ever getting that feeling.  In my eyes he portrayed confidence.  Also, we paired off and got to know each other intimately.  We also had double dates with others, but from the beginning we were very comfortable around each other and there were very few awkward moments.  This portrayed him protecting me, both from others and himself.  Finally, he always paid for our dates.  Sometimes I would feel guilty because I knew how much money a date would cost.  Yet this showed that he would provide for us in the future.  Another interesting fact I learned, was that the patterns established during dating continue on into marriage.  For example with finances, if the women helps pay for dates, that could establish that she is willing to contribute to providing for the family and working outside the home.

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